It is fatal to be a man or woman pure and simple: one must be a woman manly, or a man womanly.

It is fatal to be a man or woman pure and simple: one must be a woman manly, or a man womanly.

单纯地做一个男人或女人是致命的:一个人必须是一个有男子气概的女人，或者一个有女人味的男人。

-- Virginia Woolf 弗吉尼亚伍尔夫