If you cannot mould yourself entirely as you would wish, how can you expect other people to be entirely to your liking?

If you cannot mould yourself entirely as you would wish, how can you expect other people to be entirely to your liking?

如果你不能完全按照自己的意愿塑造自己，你怎么能指望别人完全符合你的喜好呢?

-- Thomas a Kempis 金碧士