It is not he who gains the exact point in dispute who scores most in controversy - but he who has shown the better temper.

It is not he who gains the exact point in dispute who scores most in controversy - but he who has shown the better temper.

在争论中得分最高的并不是那些在争论中得到确切分数的人，而是那些表现出较好的脾气的人。

-- Samuel Butler 塞缪尔巴特勒