Why is it men are permitted to be obsessed about their work, but women are only permitted to be obsessed about men?

Why is it men are permitted to be obsessed about their work, but women are only permitted to be obsessed about men?

为什么男人被允许痴迷于他们的工作，而女人只被允许痴迷于男人?

-- Barbra Streisand 芭芭拉·史翠珊