Find fault when you must find fault in private, and if possible sometime after the offense, rather than at the time.

Find fault when you must find fault in private, and if possible sometime after the offense, rather than at the time.

找错处的时候一定要在私下找错处，如果可能的话，要在冒犯之后找错处，而不是在那个时候。

-- Sydney Smith 史密斯