It is not he who reviles or strikes you who insults you, but your opinion that these things are insulting.

It is not he who reviles or strikes you who insults you, but your opinion that these things are insulting.

辱骂你们的，不是那辱骂你们的，也不是那击打你们的，乃是你们以为这些事是羞辱人的。

-- Epictetus 埃皮克特斯