To make oneself an object, to make oneself passive, is a very different thing from being a passive object.

To make oneself an object, to make oneself passive, is a very different thing from being a passive object.

使自己成为一个客体，使自己被动，与成为一个被动的客体是完全不同的。

-- Simone de Beauvoir 西蒙·德波伏瓦