Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.

自私不是按照自己的意愿生活，而是要求别人按照自己的意愿生活。

-- Oscar Wilde 奥斯卡·王尔德