Marriage happens as with cages: the birds without despair to get in, and those within despair of getting out.

Marriage happens as with cages: the birds without despair to get in, and those within despair of getting out.

婚姻就像关在笼子里一样:鸟儿进不去感到绝望，鸟儿出不来感到绝望。

-- Michel de Montaigne 蒙塔尼米歇尔