Do not seek to bring things to pass in accordance with your wishes, but wish for them as they are, and you will find them.

Do not seek to bring things to pass in accordance with your wishes, but wish for them as they are, and you will find them.

不要试图让事情按照你的愿望去实现，而要按照它们本来的样子去实现它们，你就会找到它们。

-- Epictetus 埃皮克特斯