Be able to decline a date so gracefully that the person isn't embarrassed that he or she asked.

Be able to decline a date so gracefully that the person isn't embarrassed that he or she asked.

能够优雅地拒绝约会，这样对方就不会因为他或她的要求而感到尴尬。

-- Marilyn vos Savant 玛丽莲·沃斯·莎凡特