But the rule seems to be that the bigger and more life-changing the decision, the less it will seem like a decision at all.

But the rule seems to be that the bigger and more life-changing the decision, the less it will seem like a decision at all.

但规则似乎是，这个决定越大、越能改变生活，它就越不像是一个决定。

-- Hugh Mackay 家麦凯